We Can Do Hard Things Glennon Doyle Poster

Okay, let's talk about that poster. You know the one. The Glennon Doyle "We Can Do Hard Things" poster. It’s everywhere, isn't it?

Homes, offices, even yoga studios! It's like the new "Live, Laugh, Love." But is it...overrated?

The Hard Truth About "Hard Things"

Don’t get me wrong. I admire Glennon Doyle. Her books are powerful. Her message resonates. But the poster?

Sometimes, I feel like it's silently judging me from the wall. Whispering, "Are you really doing enough hard things today?"

Maybe my "hard thing" for the day is showering. Seriously. Some days that's a monumental achievement.

Hard Things vs. Necessary Things

Is unloading the dishwasher a "hard thing"? Or just, you know, being a functional adult?

What about folding laundry? I mean, it's tedious. But is it poster-worthy?

Perhaps my issue is the phrasing. "We Can Do Hard Things" sounds like a challenge. A test of wills.

Maybe it should say, "We Can Do Some Things Sometimes, Depending on How Tired We Are." A bit less catchy, perhaps. But way more relatable!

The Pressure to Be a Hard-Thing Warrior

I feel like the poster sets an unrealistic expectation. Like we’re all supposed to be climbing Mount Everest every Tuesday.

And if we’re not, are we failing at being strong women (and men!)?

What if my hard thing is saying "no" to another volunteer opportunity? Or admitting I need help with something? Is that allowed?

Is it okay to sometimes say “Nah, I’m good?”

Let's be honest. Sometimes, self-care is the hard thing. Choosing rest. Prioritizing mental health. These aren't always easy battles.

But do they deserve a spot next to Glennon Doyle on a motivational poster? Probably!

Maybe my unpopular opinion is that "We Can Do Hard Things" should come with a disclaimer. "Hard things optional. Nap breaks encouraged."

Reclaiming the Poster's Power

I’m not suggesting we burn all the posters. (Though a bonfire sounds kind of fun, right?)

Maybe we can just...reframe it?

Instead of seeing it as a constant reminder of our shortcomings, maybe we can view it as a gentle nudge. A supportive friend saying, "Hey, you got this... eventually."

Interpreting the Message Your Way

Perhaps "hard things" can be redefined. Maybe it means facing our fears. Or being vulnerable. Or simply getting out of bed when we really, really don't want to.

Maybe it means saying “no” without feeling guilty. Maybe it’s admitting you need help.

The point is, let's personalize it. Let’s apply it to our own lives, in our own way.

If your hard thing today is making it through this article, congratulations! You did it!

My Hard Thing: Writing This Article

Seriously, writing this article felt surprisingly hard. I was worried about offending the Glennon Doyle fans.

And I was afraid of sounding like a lazy bum who avoids all hard things. (Okay, maybe there's a little truth to that.)

But hey, I did it. I tackled my "hard thing" for the day. Now, I’m going to take a nap.

"We Can Do Hard Things...After a Short Nap." - Probably Glennon Doyle (Maybe)

So next time you see that poster, give it a wink. Remember that "hard things" come in all shapes and sizes. And sometimes, the hardest thing is simply being kind to yourself.

And maybe, just maybe, give yourself permission to not do a hard thing today. It's okay. Really.

In the meantime, pass the remote.