Happy Valentines Day Son And Daughter In Law

Okay, let’s talk about Valentine's Day. And more specifically, Valentine's Day cards for your son and daughter-in-law. Yes, I said it. It's a thing, isn't it?

I know, I know. Some of you are already clutching your pearls. “But it's for lovers!” you cry. And you’re right! It is! But hear me out before you send me to Valentine’s Day jail.

Look, my son found a great woman. My daughter-in-law is basically the daughter I never had (or maybe the daughter I did have, just... pre-packaged with a wonderful man). They’re a team. They conquer laundry mountains together. They even share the remote! (Okay, maybe that’s an exaggeration. But still.)

So, isn’t a little Valentine’s Day acknowledgement warranted? Maybe? Just a tiny, Hallmark-approved nod?

My unpopular opinion? Absolutely. Why shouldn’t I send a card that says something like, “Happy Valentine’s Day to a fantastic couple who make my son (and me!) so happy!" It's not like I'm writing sonnets about their undying love. I'm just being... supportive.

The "But They're Married!" Argument

This is the most common rebuttal. "They're already married! They have a legal document proving their love! Why a card?"

And to that I say… precisely! They’re married! They’ve signed up for a lifetime of shared Netflix passwords and discussing who’s turn it is to take out the trash. Doesn’t that deserve some recognition? Marriage is hard work, people! A little Valentine's Day sugar coating never hurt anyone.

Plus, think of it this way: it's another chance to remind them that you appreciate them. And let's be honest, who doesn't like being appreciated? Especially when it comes in the form of a slightly cheesy, glitter-covered piece of cardstock.

The Fear of Being “Too Much”

I get it. No one wants to be that mother-in-law. The one who’s constantly meddling and overstepping boundaries. The one who critiques every life choice with a thinly veiled passive-aggressive comment delivered over Sunday dinner.

But a Valentine’s Day card doesn’t have to be that. It can be simple, sweet, and… dare I say… even funny! Think along the lines of, “Happy Valentine’s Day! Hope you two get to enjoy some quality time… like folding laundry together! (Just kidding…mostly.)”

See? Harmless. And potentially even chuckle-inducing.

However. And this is a big however. If you have a, shall we say, complicated relationship with your daughter-in-law, maybe skip the card. Read the room, people! Gauge the temperature! A Valentine’s Day card is not a magic bullet that will suddenly mend years of strained relations.

So, Should You Send a Card?

Ultimately, it’s your call. But if you have a good relationship with your son and daughter-in-law, and you think they’d appreciate the gesture, why not? It's a small way to show you care.

Just avoid the super sappy, overly romantic cards. Unless, of course, that’s totally your style. In that case, go for it! Just be prepared for some potentially awkward glances across the dinner table.

Think of it as a way to spread a little love and cheer on a day that’s already dedicated to… well, love and cheer. And hey, maybe they’ll even send one back! (Okay, probably not. But a girl can dream, right?)

Happy Valentine's Day, everyone! And may your laundry mountains be small and your remotes always within reach.